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“In this heart-warming children's book debut, young Bella befriends John, the new boy at school, who she instantly senses is "quite special”. Shared through the eyes of a compassionate, brave young girl, readers learn about empathy, treating others respectfully, and the security that a good friendship can provide in this encouraging story. Bella’s desire to research John’s condition—and her resultant willingness to approach her classmates with that information—is endearing, and the perfect example, for readers of all ages, of how to handle differences with mutual respect and kindness. This is a fitting resource to grow awareness of Tourette Syndrome, for both kids and adults, while driving home the importance of empathy and consideration for others.”

—Publishers Weekly 

“This is a book about acceptance, curiosity about others, and understanding. In this story of a boy named John, we see his classmate Bella tune into the humanity in his eyes, his sparkle and then in his sadness. By telling the story through the burgeoning friendship between these two, the reader can feel what it is like to be vulnerable and shamed, to be cared about by another, and to be seen for all of who you are. My Friend John is a story of kindness, human connection and overcoming one's hurdles in the safe care of others, all parts of developing empathy.”

—Tovah P. Klein, Ph.D.; Bestselling author of Raising Resilience & How Toddlers Thrive

“My Friend John by Arleen McCarthy, a beloved teacher at our school, is an essential book for elementary school children. This heartfelt story introduces Tourette Syndrome in a way that’s easy for young readers to understand. Reading it with my six-year-old son was a wonderful opportunity to spark conversations about acceptance and kindness. Educating young people about conditions like Tourette Syndrome is crucial for fostering empathy and understanding in our communities. My Friend John not only helps children learn about empathy but also encourages acceptance, making it a valuable addition to any classroom or home library.”

—Eva M. Cieloszyk, Interim Acting Principal

 “I’ve known Ms. McCarthy for many years and recognize how passionate she is about education and teaching her students about tolerance towards others who may be different. My Friend John is a very personal story, inspired by her brothers with special needs, which makes the heartwarming message of the story even more powerful. With this book, children will learn to be considerate and friendly towards others who may be faced with challenges, such as Tourette Syndrome. A must-read for young children!”

—Roman R, 1st Grade Teacher

“I have had the fortune of working alongside Arleen McCarthy for years now, a teacher known throughout our community for her exceptional compassion, sensitivity, kindness, and authenticity (all of which she models for and teaches directly to her students). My Friend John tells the touching story of a child who demonstrates these same characteristics when the newest member of her classroom, a child living with Tourette Syndrome, arrives at her school. Through a first-person narrative, it offers its readers the opportunity to learn the importance of reaching out to, getting to know, advocating for, and treating with love and kindness other humans who may be different from them. I cannot recommend this book highly enough, and I am hoping that it will be translated into French so that I can read it to my own students!”

—Ben G, Dual Language French 1st Grade Teacher

“If the world had more children like Bella in it, what a wonderful world it would be! My Friend John is truly inspirational and teaches a significant life lesson in the sweetest way. I’m in awe of the author’s ability to explain John’s disorder so accurately yet tenderly. This book needs to be on bookshelves everywhere!”

—Allison M, 3rd Grade RTI Teacher

"My Friend John is a powerful and heartwarming book that promotes inclusivity and raises much-needed awareness about Tourette Syndrome. Its message of creating a welcoming classroom environment for every child, and the emphasis on friendship and support, are both inspiring and essential. This book serves as a valuable tool in teaching children the importance of speaking up for others and fostering a sense of belonging. It's a must-read for all children, helping to cultivate greater understanding, empathy, and disability awareness.”

—Lynda B, Occupational Therapist 

“I love the writing style of Arleen McCarthy, and I admire her uncanny ability to succinctly convey a beautiful message relevant to life. This book is an easy, powerful read. I give it 5 stars since I think it’s important for other children to learn about kindness and to be nice to others.”

—Norma H, Kindergarten Teacher

“Arleen and I have worked next to each other in grade 1 and 2 classrooms for eight years in a NYC public school. We share a love of early childhood books that open up discussions in the classroom about kindness, respect, and friendship. My Friend John is Arleen’s heartfelt story inspired by her brother. It teaches children about being open-minded when confronted with differences. I can’t wait to read this story to my class to hear about their experiences and to promote a spirit of inclusivity and generosity that mirrors Bella’s.”

—Anne F, 2nd Grade Teacher

“My Friend John is charmingly written, showing John and Bella’s new friendship in an uplifting manner that will warm the hearts of children and their guardians alike. This book is important for young readers as it is educational in its explanation of Tourette Syndrome and teaches an important lesson of tolerance. It explores the meaning of true friendship, emphasizes the importance of human kindness, and highlights the value of leadership and the importance of perseverance.”

—Jen H, Special Education Teacher

“As a special education teacher who worked closely with Ms. McCarthy, I’ve seen how she supports students with special needs. She is caring not just in her classroom but also in the hallways and throughout the school. Reading My Friend John was a touching experience. It highlighted the importance of friendship and cherishing time with loved ones. McCarthy’s portrayal of a child's understanding of illness is both insightful and thought-provoking, encouraging readers to reflect on their own relationships. Overall, I highly recommend My Friend John to anyone looking for a touching story about friendship and resilience. It’s a valuable read for both children and adults, offering important lessons about empathy and the complexities of life.”

—Mona M, Special Education Teacher